Why Estate Planning Matters More Than You Think, Regardless of Your Age

Most people put off estate planning, convinced it’s something only for the wealthy or elderly. The reality is far different—estate planning is for everyone. If you have children, assets (no matter how small), or even just social media accounts, having a plan in place can spare your loved ones stress, confusion, and financial strain.

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Most people put off estate planning, convinced it’s something only for the wealthy or elderly. The reality is far different—estate planning is for everyone. If you have children, assets (no matter how small), or even just social media accounts, having a plan in place can spare your loved ones stress, confusion, and financial strain.

In a recent episode of The Digital Legacy Podcast, estate planning attorney and social media educator, Crista Hermance, Esq, broke down why planning ahead is one of the most responsible and compassionate things you can do. From understanding guardianship to navigating digital assets, she laid out practical steps that families—especially young parents—should take today to secure their futures.

The Uncomfortable Conversation We All Need to Have

Let’s face it: no one wants to think about their own mortality. Whether you’re a young parent juggling diapers and daycare or someone navigating the complexities of caring for aging parents while raising your own kids, estate planning probably isn’t at the top of your to-do list. But as Crista pointed out, not making these decisions doesn’t eliminate the need for them—it just means someone else (often the court system) will make them for you.

For parents, this is particularly crucial. Without an estate plan, the guardianship of your minor children could be decided by a judge, rather than someone you trust. If you don’t specify who should care for your child, the court will have to choose, and that may not align with your wishes.

Will vs. Trust: What’s the Difference?

Many people think writing a simple will is enough to ensure their assets go to the right people. However, wills must go through probate, a lengthy and often expensive court process. Instead, a living trust can help your estate bypass probate altogether, allowing for a smoother transition of assets.

A will outlines who will receive your property after you die, but it doesn’t provide much protection during your lifetime. A trust, on the other hand, not only designates who gets what but also enables someone you trust to manage your assets if you become incapacitated. This is particularly important for parents of minor children, as a trust ensures that funds are handled responsibly until the children are of a suitable age.

The Digital Legacy: What Happens to Your Online Life?

In today’s digital world, estate planning isn’t just about physical assets. Have you thought about what happens to your social media accounts, email, or even cryptocurrency when you pass away? Many platforms have policies for memorializing or deleting accounts, but if you don’t specify your wishes, your family may face unnecessary challenges in accessing or closing them.

To safeguard your digital legacy, consider creating a digital estate plan, which includes listing all your online accounts, passwords (secured in a legal way), and specifying what should happen to them. Appointing a digital executor can ensure your wishes are honored.

The Sandwich Generation: Caring for Parents While Raising Kids

Another growing challenge is the sandwich generation—adults who are caring for both their young children and their aging parents. This dual responsibility can be emotionally and financially overwhelming. Having an estate plan that includes healthcare directives, financial power of attorney, and a strategy for long-term care can alleviate some of this burden.

Many people assume that their parents have things figured out, but that’s not always the case. Having open conversations and ensuring your parents have the necessary legal documents in place can prevent a crisis later on. As Crista pointed out, waiting until a medical emergency to put these documents together only adds to the stress.

Common Estate Planning Myths—Debunked

  1. “I don’t have enough assets to need an estate plan.”

    • Estate planning isn’t just about money. It’s about control, guardianship, and making things easier for your loved ones.

  2. “I can just name beneficiaries on my accounts and avoid probate.”

    • While naming beneficiaries is helpful, it doesn’t account for all situations, such as incapacitation or unforeseen legal battles over assets.

  3. “I’m young and healthy. I don’t need to worry about this yet.”

    • Unfortunately, accidents and illnesses can happen at any age. Estate planning isn’t just for the elderly; it’s for anyone who wants to protect their family.

Getting Started: What You Can Do Today

Feeling overwhelmed? You’re not alone. But getting started is easier than you think. Here are a few practical steps:

  • Draft a will or trust. If you have children, name a guardian.

  • Create a durable power of attorney and healthcare directive. These documents allow a trusted person to make financial and medical decisions for you if you become incapacitated.

  • Review your beneficiaries. Ensure that your life insurance, retirement accounts, and other assets are properly designated.

  • Make a digital estate plan. List your online accounts, passwords (stored securely), and specify what should happen to them.

  • Talk to your family. Having open conversations can prevent confusion and conflict later on.

Final Thoughts: Planning for Peace of Mind

Estate planning is one of the greatest gifts you can give your loved ones. It’s not just about protecting assets—it’s about providing clarity, security, and peace of mind. Whether you’re a young parent, part of the sandwich generation, or simply someone who wants to avoid unnecessary legal complications, taking action now is key.

To learn more about estate planning and how it can safeguard your family’s future, be sure to watch the full conversation with Crista Hermance on YouTube. You can also check out her resources and educational content at EstatePlanningMom.com for more guidance on where to start.

Don’t wait until it’s too late—start planning your legacy today.


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