Composting Humans: Rethinking Death in a Modern Age

Death may be one of the oldest parts of human life, but how we handle it is changing fast. In a world increasingly focused on sustainability, emotional authenticity, and digital transparency, more people are looking for deathcare options that reflect their values. Host Niki Weiss, of The Digital Legacy Podcast, sat down recently with one of the most talked-about voices in modern funeral service: Brienna “Brie” Smith of Return Home.

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Death may be one of the oldest parts of human life, but how we handle it is changing fast. In a world increasingly focused on sustainability, emotional authenticity, and digital transparency, more people are looking for deathcare options that reflect their values. Host Niki Weiss, of The Digital Legacy Podcast, sat down recently with one of the most talked-about voices in modern funeral service: Brienna “Brie” Smith of Return Home.

Brie is not your traditional funeral director. With nearly 15 years in the industry, she has emerged as a national leader in terramation, a process often referred to as human composting. As the first funeral director at Return Home and a social media educator with viral TikTok presence, Brie has been instrumental in building a business and cultural movement that invites people to rethink what death care can, and should, look like.

What Is Terramation?

Terramation, or natural organic reduction, is a process that transforms human remains into nutrient-rich compost. It’s not cremation, not burial, and definitely not your average end-of-life option. At Return Home, bodies are placed into a vessel with organic materials like straw, alfalfa, and sawdust. Over 30 to 60 days, with careful temperature and airflow monitoring, the body gently breaks down, producing an average of 250 pounds of clean, odorless soil.

It’s a process that’s surprisingly beautiful and profoundly healing. Families can visit their loved ones during the decomposition period and later receive soil that can be used to plant trees, grow gardens, or nourish public green spaces. It’s a full-circle experience, one that redefines what legacy looks like.

A Digital Generation Faces Mortality

Brie’s use of TikTok wasn’t a calculated marketing ploy, it was born out of necessity. In 2021, with pandemic restrictions still limiting in-person outreach, she turned to social media to educate the public. What she found was a deeply curious audience, particularly among Millennials and Gen Z, who were confronting mortality more directly than any generation in recent history.

COVID-19 made death unignorable. People weren’t just losing loved ones; they were also reevaluating how they wanted to be remembered and what kind of legacy they wanted to leave. Terramation struck a chord. It offered something few deathcare options do: alignment with deeply held beliefs about the environment, autonomy, and meaningful ritual.

How It Differs from Green Burial or Cremation

People often compare terramation to green burial or cremation, but it occupies a unique place between the two. Green burial involves placing an unembalmed body directly into the earth, typically in a natural setting, with no vault or casket. It’s low-impact but often requires access to designated cemetery land.

Terramation happens indoors, in a carefully controlled environment. It accelerates natural decomposition while allowing families to remain involved in the process by visiting, witnessing, and eventually receiving compost back. It also uses significantly fewer resources than cremation, which consumes a tremendous amount of natural gas and emits carbon and particulate matter into the air.

As Brie notes, terramation is especially appealing to people who’ve spent their lives focused on sustainability. For them, it’s not just about being “green” in death. It’s about contributing back to the ecosystem in a tangible, life-affirming way.

The Spiritual and Emotional Power of Soil

One of the most compelling parts of Brie’s perspective is the emotional impact terramation has on families. When people receive their loved one’s soil, it’s not just a container of remains. It’s a living material, filled with symbolic and literal potential.

“You see that transfer of vitality take place,” Brie says. “You’re watching new life grow from the person you loved.” It’s more than memorialization. It’s participatory grief - a process that invites mourners to remain in relationship with the dead in a tangible way.

For many, that’s deeply healing. In a culture that often rushes people through mourning, terramation slows things down. The 60- to 90-day process gives families time to absorb the loss, visit the vessel, and reflect on their own role in the cycle of life.

Legal and Logistical Realities

As of mid-2025, terramation is legal in 13 U.S. states. Washington, where Return Home is based, was the first. Other states are catching on, thanks in large part to consumer advocacy. According to Brie, legislation often follows demand and not industry lobbying. “People want options,” she says. “They want to die as meaningfully as they lived.”

Still, navigating regulations can be tricky. Not all states allow human composting, and interstate transport is governed by specific licensing rules. Return Home can accept bodies from out of state, provided they arrive in approved containers like airline transfer trays.

The good news? More states are currently exploring legislation, and Return Home offers resources on how to contact local lawmakers to advocate for change.

Common Questions and a Few Misconceptions

Terramation sparks curiosity and, sometimes, confusion. What about pacemakers? Can you compost someone who went through chemotherapy? Is the soil radioactive?

Brie and her team have heard it all, and addressed it with transparency. Most medical implants can remain in the body and are removed only at the end of the process. Chemotherapy drugs and other medical substances break down during composting, but families are advised not to use the resulting soil on edible plants just to be cautious. The soil is tested and meets all state regulations before it’s returned.

And no, it doesn’t smell.

The Future of Deathcare Is Personal

Deathcare is no longer one-size-fits-all. Whether through digital memorialization, virtual rituals, or eco-conscious disposition methods like terramation, people want more control over how they say goodbye and how they are remembered.

Terramation won’t be for everyone. But it offers something powerful: a chance to keep giving, even after death. That’s a legacy more and more people are ready to embrace.

🎥 Want to learn more about Brienna’s story, how terramation works, and why people across the country are choosing human composting? Watch the full episode of the Digital Legacy Podcast on YouTube. It’s an unforgettable conversation about the future of death—and the humanity we bring to it.


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