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There’s something deeply tender about the moment we receive a loved one’s ashes.

It’s often quiet. Still. Heavy.

And then, eventually, we’re left with the question:
What now?

This is where many people find themselves unsure on how to honor the remains of someone they loved deeply, whether a family member, a partner, or a beloved pet. It's also the question that sparked Nia Emberly, a memorial jewelry company transforming ashes into wearable art.

The Search for Connection After Loss

For David Trump, co-founder of Nia Emberly, it started with grief.

After unexpectedly losing his dog, Rudy, David found himself walking familiar trails alone, holding a leash with no dog at the end of it. The pain was unbearable, and the traditional options for memorializing Rudy didn’t feel right. An urn on a shelf wasn’t enough. He wanted to keep Rudy with him in spirit and in presence.

This personal loss sparked a journey that would eventually lead him to meet Sebastian Roy, a master ceramicist and scientist with a passion for innovation and meaning-making.

The Art and Science of Memorial Jewelry

Sebastian had long been fascinated by the subtle ways we infuse meaning into ceramics. At the studio where he worked, a glaze made with cremated remains had always stood out. It planted the seed that ashes could be more than a memory on a mantle. They could be part of art, beauty, and remembrance.

Together, David and Sebastian began experimenting with ceramic formulations that could respectfully and beautifully incorporate cremated remains. It took two years of research and development to refine a process that would not only be durable and beautiful but also deeply meaningful.

The result is a unique clay body made of approximately 70 percent solidified cremains, blended with porcelain and mineral elements, and crafted by hand into pendants and bracelets.

Why Memorial Jewelry Matters

So why choose memorial jewelry?

Because it lets you carry your loved one with you.
Not just in your heart, but close to your body. Around your neck. On your wrist.

David’s necklace and bracelets containing Rudy’s ashes go with him on walks, errands, and travels. They aren’t just objects. They’re ongoing connections.

This resonates deeply for many who feel disconnected from traditional memorial options. A dusty urn on a shelf can feel like a closed door. Jewelry, on the other hand, opens up conversation, remembrance, and movement.

A Ceremonial Process Rooted in Respect

The process is both technical and spiritual. First, the ashes (which are actually bone fragments ground into powder) are purified, refined, and turned into an ultra-fine consistency. Then, they’re blended with porcelain and minerals to form the basis for the jewelry pieces.

Every piece is hand-formed and fired with care. It’s a practice of dignity, not just craftsmanship.

As Sebastian says, there’s something sacred about working with cremated remains. It’s not like working with any other material. The responsibility is higher. The intention is deeper. And the outcome is something irreplaceable.

Options That Reflect You

Nia Emberly offers several beautiful options. Whether it’s for a dog, a parent, a sibling, or a chosen family member, these pieces allow people to choose how they want to remember. Personally, symbolically, and with intention.

How to Get Started

If you're in the U.S., Nia Emberly has made it simple. You can request a USPS Cremated Remains shipping kit (Label 139) at your local post office. This box includes everything you need. Secure packaging, tracking, and peace of mind.

The Nia Emberly team handles the rest with precision and compassion. The turnaround time is about 4 to 6 weeks, and all unused ashes are returned if desired. Funeral homes and veterinary clinics can also become partners through their website: niaemberly.ca

Honoring the Decisions That Come After Cremation

One of the most powerful parts of the conversation with Niki was the recognition that cremation isn't the final decision. It’s often just the beginning.

“What are your plans after cremation?” is a question few people are asked. And yet, millions of people have ashes sitting quietly in closets and cabinets, unsure what to do next.

Nia Emberly provides a meaningful and creative answer to that question.

A Growing Field of Creative Remembrance

David and Sebastian are part of a larger wave of death tech innovators who are reimagining what remembrance can look like. From tattoos made with ashes to pebbles formed from cremains, people are finding new ways to carry legacy, memory, and love forward.

For those who feel forgotten by traditional deathcare systems, or simply want something more personal, this kind of creative remembrance opens a new path.

As David put it, "I didn’t want Rudy sitting on a shelf. I wanted him with me, for the rest of life’s adventures."

Take One Step Toward Intentional Remembrance

If you’re grieving, or supporting someone who is, know that you’re not alone.

You don’t have to settle for options that feel distant or impersonal. You deserve something that speaks to the relationship you had and the life you shared.

Explore your options.
Have the conversation.
And when the time feels right, consider how a physical object, handmade and heartfelt—can keep your connection alive.

🎧 Watch the full episode of The Digital Legacy Podcast with Niki Weiss, David Trump, and Sebastian Roy on YouTube.
🌐 Learn more or become a partner at niaemberly.ca
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